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Sex is cool, but relationships are better.

I used to have sex like it was a sport. It was fun but when feelings start to play a big part in it. It’s a whole different experience. It’s not even sex anymore. It’s more like making love.

Although sometimes it can be tricky because you can be in a relationship with someone and you only see them as a cute little puppy, and who wants to f—-k a cute little puppy?

What I mean is—she is cute in the way she does things—like little puppies.

On the other hand she could be real sexy and you really like the way she presents herself.

I prefer those kinds of girls because I stay attracted to them on another level, and I don’t just think of them as cute fluffy animals. That way the relationship can work.

Another thing I’d like to address is that people always say men are a lot more hornier and that they just want to hit it and quit it. From my experience I would have to say that that is false.

I know a whole bunch of girls who don’t date; they just mess with a number of dudes. Anyway, the point I’m really trying to express is whether your in a relationship or not if your having sex don’t just pull out, WRAP IT UP. No glove; no love.

—Chris Vargas